Dr. Clue Loves Working with DMCs!

  As a Destination Management Companies (DMCs), you’re always hunting for fresh and relevant event ideas and you need them yesterday. You can count on us! If you are a planner for a DMC, we would love to build a win-win relationship with you. In order to build trust and…

On-Site Hunt

We come to your office or hotel for this fantastic indoor, onsite, treasure hunt.   Transform your meeting space into an interactive game!  Great for inclement weather!    With take-away lessons you can use immediately to start building your unstoppable team community.     Fact:   Most teams under-achieve…and it’s NOT for lack…

On-site hunt (virtual): Clue Trek Mini

Need a quick meeting energy boost, or perhaps a fun, impactful way to boost familiarity and camaraderie during your lunch or cocktail hour?  During your Mini-Trek, we come to you VIRTUALLY, transforming your meeting space into an interactive experience!  Great for inclement weather, with take-away lessons you can use immediately…

Big Hero 6 and the Heroes Quest

In my last blog (The “Quest” for Success), I explored the concept of the “quest” and how it relates to both the Indiana Jones films of the 80s as well as the workplace of today. Since them, my fascination with the quest model has further deepened upon encountering my friend, Gail Whipple’s, brilliant take on the hero’s journey, what she calls the “Heroes Circle”. According to Gail’s model, a hero typically goes through five stages on the course of a quest, namely:

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Your secret password to this week’s newsletter puzzle is “Scooby Doo“!

 

 

Emotional Intelligence in Relationships, part 2

In my last article, I talked about boosting one’s emotional intelligence. To do this, you need to concentrate on three specific disciplines:

  • Awareness of Emotions
  • Expression of Emotions
  • Managing/Controlling Your Emotions

Let’s break these categories down a bit further.

Awareness of Emotions: Have you ever asked a teenager, “What are you feeling right now?” only to have him respond, “I dunno”. Unless that kid is remarkably ahead of the self-awareness curve, he probably possesses a relatively low level of emotional intelligence. Not that this would be surprising, of course: most teenagers, in general, are struggling simply to understand themselves and the world around them. But what about adults? What’s our excuse? Alas, many “grown ups” are little more than teenagers in grown-up clothing.

Running One’s Stories

My girlfriend and I are running through the park yesterday on a warm, sunny, California afternoon when my partner — observing my relatively-slow jogging rate — suggests, “Ready to step up the pace?”

Nonplussed, I respond: “Give me a break! Can’t you see I’m struggling to keep up?”

Silence ensues, followed by a hurt: “I was just trying to help!”

What in the world has just happened here? One second we’re jogging along together in nature, the next we’re at each others’ throats.

Mindfulness at Work: The Goose is Out

There’s a Zen koan that goes like this:

“If a man puts a gosling in the bottle and feeds it until it is full-grown, how can the man get the goose out without killing it or breaking the bottle?”

Apparently this riddle has been driving Zen monks crazy for the past several hundred years. Now, the thing about koans is this: they’re not supposed to be easy. Wikipedia describes koans as a Zen-practice “to provoke ‘the great doubt’, and test a student’s progress in Zen practice.”